So you want to be a mum? Every time you see a little baby in a mother's arms you desire it even more. I am going to ask some hard questions here for those who want to be mums: Why do you want to be a mum? Is it because it will be fun? Is it because you can show your motherhood to others? Is it because you want to keep your partner?
Is it because of your loneliness? Is it because you are curious? Is it because you can get so many benefits in this country? Is it because you want to leave your surname going after you die? If you had to go on an interview in order to be authorised to be a mother Nike Air Span II Pas Cher , do you think you'd pass?
Motherhood is a full-time job with long hours and overtime. It is not a task for just anyone, and I could even go on to say that it is one of the most important jobs there is in the whole world. You are bringing another human being to life - can you feel the weight? And if that's not heavy enough, consider that you'll be making yourself responsible for him for the rest of your life.
Whoever he becomes, he'll still be your son. Whatever she does, she'll still be your daughter Nike Flex 2018 RN Pas Cher , and that is a very heavy weight to carry! You will be directly responsible for teaching your child everything that he needs to know in order to succeed. If you haven't learned all that yourself yet, teaching your child is going to be extremely tricky!
You may think that since there are so many mums, it must be self-explanatory. But think again: how many mums actually succeed in raising their children the right way? How many succeed in bringing their children up to be the best they can be? If all mums thoughtfully considered their responsibilities, our society would definitely not be the way it is today. Instead, we have children killing other children Nike Odyssey React Pas Cher , kids taking illegal drugs, teenagers getting pregnant, and the list goes on.
Some adults have a hard time finding their place in the world just because of the way they were brought up themselves. Now this should mean something!
Many women want to be mums, but can they really be good ones? You don't have to go to college to qualify for the motherhood task. But somehow you must come to understand what you're getting yourself into. You cannot bear your children and just let them be raised by TV, Internet Nike Epic React Pas Cher , school, their friends, etc. Once you bring them into this world, it is up to you to take care of them.
If the reasons you're having children are among those listed at the beginning of this article, then you're having them for the wrong reasons and you (and most certainly your children!) will be greatly disappointed. You see Nike Air Maestro II Pas Cher , if you could not fulfil those needs on your own, how do you think a little child can fulfil them for you?
Isn't it unfair to expect that your little baby will keep your partner at home? Or, that your baby will take your loneliness away or, make your life more fun? How can he possibly do that? If there's one thing you should learn before becoming a mother, it is this: motherhood is about the children - not about you!
Cristiane Cardoso is a columnist at and on the 'Folha Universal' national newspaper in Brazil Nike Air Footscape Pas Cher , and also 'Free Woman' presenter on every Thursday 10pm Uk time.
According to studies, learning through play is a vital part of a child's development. Ensuring your child has sufficient time to play offers great benefits. Children realise some extra energy when they play. A child begins to find out who he is and his capabilities during play. This starts right during his infancy. Even during early development, a child's mind is expanding by looking at his surrounding!
What is the importance of using educational toys?
The use of educational toys helps children learn many different skills which they will need in their life. This is why they are preferred most in child care Five Dock.
Educational toys help children learn about conflict resolution, develop problem-solving skills and also learn how cause and effect work. When these toys are used right, children even at their youngest age will start to learn and become more creative. It teaches children about helping each other Nike Flyknit Trainer Pas Cher , sharing and also improves their imagination and creativity.
Do you know children start benefiting from educational toys as early as they are one month old? Here we have shared some great ideas for educational toys based on age range and their benefits.
1 to 12-month-old babies:
Sensory play helps stimulate your child's senses at an early age. As your child continues to develop hand to eye co-ordination, introducing toys can encourage more interaction.
Once the child becomes more active, you can start introducing problem-solving toys like puzzles. The problem-solving toys help children work through conflicts and more such as if I do this then that will happen.
Their confidence level will get boosted once they can figure out how each of the toys works after some trial and error guidance. Some of the other toys which would help your toddlers will include the ones that promote movement.
Some of the toys used in child care centres Five Dock include soothers, small portable toys with sound and light, infant play stackers or blocks and more.
12 to 24 months old:
As your child grows older Nike Air Force 270 Pas Cher , he will soon become very mobile. At this stage, introducing right toys will help teach balance and coordination which will increase your child curiosity with their new mobility toys.
As your child starts to walk, you can incorporate learning numbers by making them count their steps which will become more familiar even if they don't understand at this age.
Some of the toys used in childcare during this age include themed books, walkers, push cars Nike Air More Uptempo Pas Cher , themed toys and ride toys.